about

Call me Zoë K.

For a long time I didn’t particularly like sex. I tried to become more sex positive by educating myself but I didn’t get very far. In 2014, I found a name for my problem: “sexual shame”. I had an epiphany and found that the shame fell away.

I began enjoying my sex life in a way I never had, but now I’m dealing with low libido that feels painfully similar to what I experienced before. Depression and antidepressants played a role but they don’t represent the whole story, since I no longer have depression and am off the medication.

Wolf is my partner of over 20 years. We get along fantastically well and always have.

I’m also in a long-distance relationship with Jaime (aka Gawan), who is my Dom and one of the warmest people I’ve met.

I’m here exploring and healing my sexuality with words and photos. I also talk about health (mental and physical), BDSM, polyamory, feminism, body image, personal growth, and whatever else strikes my fancy.

My interview with Tantra Punk covers a lot of the basics about me, if you want to just sit back and have a listen. (Fair warning: it’s over an hour long.)

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Feel free to send me a (respectful) message.

A note to marketing people: I’m not currently accepting books or products to review, nor am I putting ads on my site.

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