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  1. I very much agree with your points. Men are taught that our value as men, in particular but not exclusively for pleasing partners, resides with the size of our penis. From locker room ridicule to the nearly always massive penis in porn and increase your size ads all over the internet, men are told that a small penis makes you less than.

    So when encountering a person who turns you down outright because of your penis size, it’s not just a rejection, but a statement that you are not man enough, not good enough regardless of anything else about you. It strikes at the core of what men are told makes them of value.

    You can see this internalized value of self in the penis in men who feel threatened by sex toys or feel failure at their inability to give a partner with a vagina an orgasm from penetration alone.

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  2. Thank you so much for verbalizing the internalized stress that so many men feel. As someone without a penis, it’s incredibly helpful to hear your insight into this all-too-common mindset. Your writing is eloquent and powerful. Much appreciated!

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